𝒞𝑜𝒶𝒸𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝐼𝓇𝒾𝓈 𝒽𝑒𝓁𝓅𝑒𝒹 𝓂𝑒 𝒸𝒽𝒶𝓃𝓃𝑒𝓁 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒶𝓅𝓅𝓁𝓎 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻-𝑒𝓂𝓅𝑜𝓌𝑒𝓇𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝒸𝑜𝓂𝑒𝓈 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝑔𝑒𝓃𝒹𝑒𝓇 𝑒𝓊𝓅𝒽𝑜𝓇𝒾𝒶 𝓉𝑜 𝒶𝓁𝓁 𝒶𝓈𝓅𝑒𝒸𝓉𝓈 𝑜𝒻 𝓂𝓎 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒: 𝓂𝓎 𝒸𝒶𝓇𝑒𝑒𝓇, 𝓂𝓎 𝒶𝓇𝓉, 𝓂𝓎 𝓇𝑒𝓁𝒶𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃𝓈𝒽𝒾𝓅𝓈… 𝑅𝑒𝒸𝑜𝓃𝓃𝑒𝒸𝓉𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝓂𝓎 𝓈𝓀𝒾𝓁𝓁𝓈, 𝓈𝓉𝓇𝑒𝓃𝑔𝓉𝒽 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝓂𝒶𝑔𝒾𝒸 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝒹𝓈 𝓂𝑒 𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝑒 𝒶𝓉𝓉𝓊𝓃𝑒𝒹 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝓂𝓎 𝒽𝒾𝑔𝒽𝑒𝓇, 𝓉𝓇𝓊𝑒𝓈𝓉 𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻. 𝒯𝓇𝒶𝓃𝓈 𝒶𝓈 𝒶 𝓌𝒶𝓎 𝑜𝒻 𝓁𝒾𝓋𝒾𝓃𝑔.
𝒪𝓃𝒸𝑒 𝐼 𝒶𝓂, 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓃 𝐼 𝒸𝒶𝓃 𝒹𝑜 (𝒶𝓃𝓎𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔!).

– LB 24 y/o transfemme

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𝒲𝒽𝑒𝓃 𝐼 𝓉𝒶𝓁𝓀 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝓂𝓎 𝒸𝑜𝒶𝒸𝒽, 𝐼 𝒸𝒶𝓃 𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓁𝓁𝓎 𝓁𝒾𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓃 𝓉𝑜 𝓂𝓎𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒷𝑒 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝓂𝓎𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝒻𝑒𝑒𝓁𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒶𝓁𝑜𝓃𝑒. 𝐼’𝓋𝑒 𝓃𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝒻𝑒𝓁𝓉 𝓂𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝓈𝑒𝑒𝓃. 𝐼’𝓂 𝓂𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝒸𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓇 𝒶𝒷𝑜𝓊𝓉 𝓌𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝐼’𝓂 𝑔𝑜𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓉𝒽𝓇𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽, 𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝐼 𝒻𝑒𝑒𝓁 𝓈𝓉𝓊𝒸𝓀 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝓌𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒 𝐼 𝓌𝒶𝓃𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝒷𝑒, 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐼 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓂𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝒸𝑜𝓃𝒻𝒾𝒹𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝒶𝓀𝑒 𝑜𝓃 𝒸𝒽𝒶𝓁𝓁𝑒𝓃𝑔𝑒𝓈 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒸𝑜𝓃𝓉𝒾𝓃𝓊𝑒 𝓉𝑜 𝑔𝓇𝑜𝓌.
𝒯𝒽𝑒𝓇𝑒'𝓈 𝓃𝑜𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓌𝑒 𝒸𝒶𝓃'𝓉 𝓉𝒶𝓁𝓀 𝒶𝒷𝑜𝓊𝓉

– 28 y/o NB

/əˈbedər/

noun abettor, abetter

1. a person who helps on or urges another to act; an encourager or supporter (of a plan of action)2. someone who incites another person to do something "wrong" or commit the crime of living healthy, well, and free.

Iris E. Fernández Valdés

(she/they) (ella/elli)


Iris discovered her passion for the radical magic of coaching while supporting stress and anxiety management groups at a primary care health-tech startup. After pivoting from a career in computer science, she now believes connecting with ourselves, with each other, and with the planet is a more challenging and worthwhile pursuit than working with machines.A Puerto Rican nonbinary trans woman and emotional wellbeing coach, Iris promotes coaching as a tool that takes us beyond individual self-actualization and brings about revolutionary grassroots community self-determination. She is part of the boricuir diaspora in Brooklyn and an abolitionist. She is drawn to all forms of wisdom past and present. She finds inspiration in art, solace in daily rituals, and energy in dance.

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